To day ,1st November is my friends Birth Day .She shares my sun sign ,we are scorpion , i think there  are some similarities in our lives , looking at that i feel if there is some truth in the effects of  sun sign on our lives. we both were class mates in school and university ,but unfortunately we both had lost our mothers in very young age.We used to discuss our lives and problems. Our friendship is very mature , it spans over 45 years.we both have seen many ups and downs in life.But there is one big difference in our personalities---- i am very bold but she gets sub duded by her family members very quickly and cannot take a stand by herself.Well i think one has to protect oneself  from injustice.we need not be quarrelsome but can show our anger with humility too.
well does it mean our sun sign is responsible----- no way --- Perhaps there are some other forces which affect our actions.one leaves all this to one's destiny.
  well is there any thing as ?--- DESTINY--- we have seen very ordinary people getting all the goodies of life ,by ordinary i do not mean they are with out any wisdom.I think they have taken right decision at the right time in the right direction at the cross roads
some times our own attitude towards others make people around us good or bad. Positive thinking  is also a very important attribute in our lives.Positive attitude brightens our lives and negative feelings ruin our life and pushes us in a very dark corner and it has bad cascading effects on our existence,so let positivity  takes control of our behaviour.we should let certain events take their own shape and ignore these feelings of helplessness.

hi readers ,good morning ,really enjoying the good weather ,especially at the east coast of USA------ Washington DC.nature has blessed us with all the wonders of the universe.While travelling to different parts of Caribbean islands during my last vacation on a cruise ship ,I observed nature ,----------forests,vegetation,landscapes,birds species,rivers,oceans.and most important human beings of those areas.Different parts of nations have varied types of interests,----people are busy in their daily life  routines------,manufacturing ,selling,farming ,guiding tours,driving taxis ,doing exotic cooking to entice tourists and all such stuffs .we are all living our lives according to our beliefs.
    Our beliefs are very strong and depend on our upbringing ----.religious ,social.economic,family values,schooling and parenting.We are so much dependent on our circumstances,Some of us like to be different from accepted norms but then we have to be prepared for the resentment of our family ,friends ,and society.But the reaction of the society also depends on our social standing , attitude and strong conviction of ideas.I personally feel that there is nothing really good or very bad.If we are good persons, compassionate,,caring for other's feelings ,kind and loving ,then nobody will be mean to us,There is so much misery and unhappiness in this world that some  people have to resort to some type of aggressive actions  to  achieve  their goals.Any way i had wonderful time with my friends on the cruise. 
      Cruises are a good vacation ,we r away from all the hulla-balla of our daily life and routine living .when i stand outside in the balcony of big vast ocean--- specifically ---- Pacific Ocean, it looks unending ,infinite very powerful.i feel like going down and looking for the vast marine organism which is supposed to be much more than what we have on the earth,but it is only in my imaginary world as i am not a swimmer not an adventurist.I think all this in a make believe world of mine.
   we spent seven days on the cruise ,touring four islands and merry making with friends.i would advise my friends to do some adventure like this and have fun.